Poorly pitched, but two great stories. | Borderline | Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs (new video)

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#31 Borderline
| life lessons in Bon Jovi songs

Welcome back, Jovi friends!
Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs continues with Borderline.

This is the second “outtake”;
A song that was never included on the album.

Borderline was written for Bon Jovi’s third album Slippery When Wet (1986).

You can listen here for Jon Bon Jovi’s  version.
And here for Richie Sambora’s version, which did not air until 2024.

Borderline was ultimately released in 2004, on the box set 100.000.000 Bon Jovi fans can’t be wrong. 

In this video:

1. Welcome to another episode 00:00
Of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs.
And forget I am pitching it so dryly!
But if you do bear with me, then today we’re starting the outtakes from the third Bon Jovi album.
It’s way better than I made it sound, because this was from THE Bon Jovi album!

2. Disclaimer time! 01:00
There will be no actual life lesson…
Just could not come up with anything.
But I will be having not one, but two stories for you, tied to this rare Bon Jovi song.

3. The 2 albums this song is tied to 02:08
One is the album Borderline was supposed to be on, and the other is the album it actually appeared on. Almost two decades later.

4. Why was it dropped? 03:05
Giving you the you-have-never-heard-this-take-before story.
To my knowledge no one has mentioned this before.
But if you were born in the 70s or earlier, you might know it too, the moment you see the question in front of your eyes:
“Why would Bon Jovi not want to be tied to a song called Borderline in 1986?”

5. The Mystery of Richie’s Version 08:40
The second story with regard to this song, could benefit from someone with better detective skills than me.
But here’s my best shot 😇

6. The Rolling List 12:40
Extra mention of the list that will be build as we go, containing all the outtakes.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiGoDE3C06SfkAr0Ll4wz-GlGnZJNZDYh
Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

7. Next up “Edge of a Broken Heart” 14:05
An outtake crowned as one of the top 10 Bon Jovi songs ever!
(https://ultimateclassicrock.com/bon-jovi-songs-ranked/)
Yet, this song might be a bit polarizing because everybody seems to agree this is one of their best songs ever.
All but one person.
( Anyone else who did not fall head over heels in love with it?)

But what I will do, is get you a proper life lesson next time!

So next stop, the third outtake:
Edge of a Broken Heart!

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Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

SOURCES for this series:

1. RANKED
My favorite Bon Jovi article and indispensable for this series:
https://ultimateclassicrock.com/bon-jovi-songs-ranked/
By Tony Kuzminski.
List also covers any outtakes from the 2004 box set.

2. QUOTES
https://twostorytown.com/slippery-when-wet-quotes
full page of quotes EVERYTHING anybody ever said about the 3rd Bon Jovi album:

3. BJ TOURS
https://bjtours.jimdofree.com/the-albums/1986-slippery-when-wet/

4. THE LIST
Check our full playlist with rare songs here:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiGoDE3C06SfkAr0Ll4wz-GlGnZJNZDYh&si=x3mA6MQtkafEfI9I
Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

5. THIS SERIES
All videos, of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs (playlist): https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiGoDE3C06SeCKg4jvR2EoVHBOfXzHm_R


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RARE! This is the only known outtake of the first 2 Bon Jovi albums | We Rule The Night | Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs (new video)

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#30 We Rule The Night
| life lessons in Bon Jovi songs

Welcome back, Jovi friends!
Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs continues with We Rule The Night.

This is the very first life lesson about an “outtake”;
A song that was never included on the album.

We Rule The Night was written for Bon Jovi’s second album 7800 ° Fahrenheit (1985).

It is the only unreleased song (outtake) we have, from both the first and second album.
And it is the first outtake in this series, of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs.

If you’re not familiar with the song you can listen here.
The picture with all Bon Jovi members in golden suits is from the box set 100.000.000 Bon Jovi fans can’t be wrong (2004), on which the song was released, twenty years after the date.

In this video:

1. Welcome to another episode 00:00
Of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs.
And after the first episode of this series?
I think this is the most important one!

2. What is an “Outtake”?! 00:30
Let me fill you in!
Because we’re talking deepest layer of fandom-stuff here.

3. New discoveries
I just found three “new” outtakes even I had never heard of.
They are demos from the Slippery When Wet album (1986).
You can find these three, together with all the others, on this playlist:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiGoDE3C06SfkAr0Ll4wz-GlGnZJNZDYh
Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

4. 3 LINKS 03:51
I expected to be posting this video without a proper description box.
But everything is in place now.
Here are the links I mention in this video, that are the most essential:

– playlist:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiGoDE3C06SfkAr0Ll4wz-GlGnZJNZDYh
Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

– Bon Jovi Tours website album page(s):
https://bjtours.jimdofree.com/the-albums/1985-7800-fahrenheit/
Their page on the 3rd album, was the one that brought me to find the super rare demos:
https://bjtours.jimdofree.com/the-albums/1986-slippery-when-wet/

– full page of quotes EVERYTHING anybody ever said about the 2nd Bon Jovi album:
https://www.twostorytown.com/7800-fahrenheit-quotes

5. We Rule The Night 06:25
Where this outtake is from, and how it was eventually brought to the public after 15 years.
The cd box set behind me, to which I am referring in the video, is called:
“100.000.000 Bon Jovi fans can’t be wrong” (2004)

6. The fourth link 08:41
My favorite Bon Jovi article and indispensable for this series:
https://ultimateclassicrock.com/bon-jovi-songs-ranked/
By Tony Kuzminski.
List also covers any outtakes from the 2004 box set.
He writes anything between a few lines and a few paragraphs, of every Bon Jovi songs
(bar demos/ unreleased songs that did not appear on the Box Set)

7. It reminds me of…. what?! 09:28
We Rule The Night struck me as being familiar to some kind of 80s rock.
But which band was I reminded of?!
The article immediately filled in the blanks.

8. It’s not about lovers 10:30
I immediately assumed We Rule The Night would be about lovers.
Just like that Bruce Springsteen song (Because The Night Belongs To Lovers, live 1978)
But the lyrics are actually a lot darker.

9. The Shadow Twin
We Rule The Night is the unknown brother to another song;
One that did make it to the album!
The life lesson being…. (watch it!)

Check the full playlist with rare songs here:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiGoDE3C06SfkAr0Ll4wz-GlGnZJNZDYh&si=x3mA6MQtkafEfI9I
Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

Next stop, the second outtake:
Borderline!

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Your Greatest Asset Is Your Fear | Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day | episode 2

11 June 2025
You can check the new playlist here:
Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

And can find what I changed at the bottom of this post, in the “work done on THE LIST” section

Yes, it’s episode 2. But I didn’t have much more for you in episode 1 than a conclusion that obviously if I was serious about cataloging all unknown Bon Jovi songs?
Then my 2021 blogpost✏️ 102 Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – 2020 and its original playlist on YouTube, both required an update.

Or more likely;
A lifelong commitment.

I don’t think I even said that, I didn’t even get that far. I was still in denial in episode 1. But just mentioning that there was a list, and something needed to be done- well, that was simply all I could bring myself to do.

Now, honestly, I still have no idea how I ended up calling myself Rock Star Writer because if you’ve ever seen the extensive knowledge other Bon Jovi fans have, the commitment they bring to their fan art, the connection they create with the rest of the community, their level of expertise and maybe they do not suffer from what I’ve started calling “musical dyslexia” either;
Well, then it is not difficult to see I’m at least figuratively speaking not the sharpest pencil in the box.

Even the entire catalog itself, including the outtakes (unreleased songs) that were collected on the 2004 box set 100.000.000 Bon Jovi fans can’t be wrong, have already been reviewed AND kept up to date by Anthony Kuzminski in the article
All 359 Bon Jovi Songs Ranked Worst to Best
Which has been online since 2018, but has stopped featuring publishing date as well as fails to acknowledge the author. At least in the browser I am using. I’d advice VCR magazine to include them again, as authenticity and reliability are the new gold in the age of AI.
Kuzminski’s article is a prime example of the level AI will never be able reach.

(Amen)

However, it is also a level I will never reach either. And I will not even come close to AI’s attempt at recreating it, either.
So what will I have for you, in the upcoming years?
With my skills obviously lacking and my commitment ranging from erratic to absent.

I will give you depth.
I will give you meaning.
I will move you and I will rock you, and will leave no song unturned and let whatever we find there shock us, delight us or let it blow up in our face.

Together, we will uncover the deepest layers, hidden beneath deceivingly simple lyrics, and we will hunt the most remote and desolate lands of the Bon Jovi Universe.

Or, as Tony Kuzminski said it in his review of Wanted Dead or Alive, which he granted the honor of being the best Bon Jovi song at number 1;

“There’s something hidden in each of their psyches, where the fear of never being good enough drove them to be one of the biggest bands in the world.”

Bon Jovi is always hailed for being positive and inspirational, but that’s a hairspray and bubblegum version of a deeper truth.
It’s not about believing in yourself.

Your pain, your troubled past and your chronic self-doubt are not just what sets you apart from AI.
They’re more than flaws that do not make you any less lovable.

It is your deepest pain, that makes you great.
That, is Bon Jovi.

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work done on THE LIST

In this 1st session, updating and refining the list with unknown Bon Jovi songs, I threaded lightly and limited myself to three actions:

1.removing cover songs

The songs I recognized as covers, and removed, were: “With a little help from my friends”, “Brother Louis”, “Fever”, “It’s my life – We Gotta Get Out Of This Place”, “Baby, What Do You Want Me To Do”, “Mrs. Robinson”, “I Don’t Like Mondays”, “Crazy”, “Tumblin’Dice”, “Heaven Help Us”, “Sylvia’s Mother”, “Hallelujah”, “Have A Little Faith In Me”
It’s possible I missed a few, which I’m sure will surface at a later and probably highly inconvenient date 😉

Cover songs will be getting their own playlist in the future. 

2.check if there were any new outtakes from their latest album Forever (2024) 

Yes!
“That Was Then This Is Now” was added to the list

3. Did I miss any? First 3 albums (BJ TOURS WEBSITE)

I went over their pages covering the first three albums, to see if there were any songs I’d missed. The first two albums only had one outtake (We Rule The Night) which was already on the list. But about the third album they write:
“Early songs that were either dropped during the recording process or never released with full production were: Stand Up, Deep Cuts The Night, Right Side, The Promise, Lonely Is The Night, Take Me Home, Never Enough, Game Of The Heart” 

Game Of The Heart as well as Deep Cuts The Night, are already on the list.
Neither Stand up nor Right Side could be found.
But the demo versions of The Promise, Lonely Is The Night, Take Me Home, and Never Enough were found and added to the list.

 

4. Brought to my attention

These welcome additions were given to me by a reader:

We All Sleep Alone” live 1990, by Richie Sambora
Mister Big Time” Jon Bon Jovi solo Armageddon soundtrack (1998)
Nothing (2024 remaster by hAnD90)” (Have a Nice Day outtake, 2005)
+
A better version of “Starting All Over Again“.
The list contained the 2004 Box Set version, and now has one closer to the release date (prob. B-side to Keep the Faith single)


Those were the alterations for this first episode.

You can check this new shortened list here:
Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

Foundational post (2021):
102 Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – 2020
Including highlights of The Best Bon Jovi Songs you’ve never heard of! 

Or go listen to the original 102 songs-long playlist here:
Bon Jovi 1985 – 2020 Hidden Gems In Chronological Order
Created in January 2021

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The song that summoned the album | Wild in the Streets | Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs (new video)

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#29 Wild In The Streets
| life lessons in Bon Jovi songs

Welcome back, Jovi friends!
Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs continues with Wild in the Streets.

It is the 10th song of the album Slippery When Wet (1986), and the final track.

If you’re not familiar with the song – or simply long to be taken back to 1987 when this video was created – you can listen here, to the official video.

It turned out this was a song that had a lot of storytelling attached to it. So much that I even forgot to mention that the innerest of inner circles of Bon Jovi fans may jokingly refer to it as “Wild Industries”, because there once was a bootleg that incorrectly listed this track as such.

And it surely lives up to its name.
Wild Industries it is!

In this video:

1. Welcome to another episode 00:00
Of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs.
And a turbulent week where I have cut out a lot of channels through which I worked.
This series will stay on!
But if you want to know more about the 4 blogs and YouTube channel I did end, you can check my farewell video to that era here:
https://youtu.be/pMHJTSKlYqc

2. A change! 01:13
We are going to include the rare Bon Jovi songs, after all.
Rare songs are songs that were recorded but never made it to the album.
Listen to find out how they will be weaved into this series.
Starting with the next one!

3. Initially lukewarm 04:55
I was not looking forward to covering this song!
And for at least semi-good reasons, I’d say.
But I warmed up to it fast!

With thanks to a biography of this album:
“Let it Rock” by Neil Daniels
Who hailed it as the perfect ending to this album.

4. Was BON JOVI BIGGEST ALBUM, actually SUMMONED?! 10:20
( source quote Jon Bon Jovi: https://twostorytown.com/wild-in-the-streets )
Sit back for this story about brotherly love and the bigger context of guitars that brought their owners success;
With help from the other side 😈

Reference to Sinners (2025) and The Devil At The Crossroads (2019)

5. Here’s your recap 18:45
1 minute on why Wild In The Streets is probably the best song of the album, simply by its backstory alone.

6. Wrapping up the Slippery When Wet album.
And before we move on to the album that probably could have been a triple album, that’s how much material they had (New Jersey, 1988) ;
We’re going to do something entirely new!

We’re going back to the beginning, and start picking up all rare tracks or outtakes, that never made it onto the first three albums.

Check the full playlist with rare songs here:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiGoDE3C06SfkAr0Ll4wz-GlGnZJNZDYh&si=x3mA6MQtkafEfI9I
Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

Next stop, the first outtake:
We Rule The Night!

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A Time Capsule Ballad | Never Say Goodbye | Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs (new video)

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#28 Never Say Goodbye
| life lessons in Bon Jovi songs

Welcome back, Jovi friends!
Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs continues with Never Say Goodbye.

It is the 9th song of the album Slippery When Wet (1986), and the second to last track.
It is also the very first real Bon Jovi ballad.

If you’re not familiar with the song – or simply long to be taken back to 1986 in this TIME CAPSULE OF A SONG! – you can listen here, to the official video.

In this video:

1. Welcome to another episode 00:00
Of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs.
And why this song is such a watershed moment, in the Bon Jovi repertoire.
And a bit of an 80s time capsule 🤗

2. The 1987 Prom Song 01:34
And why it was such a darn On Point one! 😅
NB In the video I date it as “1986’s Prom song” but even with my non-existent experience with proms, I’m almost a 100% sure I should have said 1987.

3. Never released as a single?! 03:20
Or was it?
Why there is so much confusion about so many of the songs on this album, whether they were or were not released as singles.
And why they deliberately capped this mega successful album after only the third single, Wanted Dead or Alive.
Their heartfelt Swan Song.

4. Famous for these reasons 07:36
With this song never having been a single, why did it became a fan favorite?
Well!
Because this baby was the living, breathing, exhausted HEART of the show from 1986 to 1988!
It was what Jon Bon Jovi sang AFTER he FLEW over the audience, all the way to back of the venue.
All alone, an exhausted rock star, isolated, on a plateau.
For some of us, and by some of us I mean me, this pinnacle of rock star symbolism would become impossible to top.

5. the 3 different live VERSIONS 09:40

Over the course of 9 years Never Say Goodbye would be sung in three different ways.

The 1987 version: In the back of the room
https://youtu.be/p9FrdyS_RJs?si=jvxTMKCmkVuUsCfX
Vancouver

1990: the double guitar acoustic version, together with Richie Sambora
https://youtu.be/WKW6rPT6aNg?si=2s9tqFjhyrPHQqsi
Rock in Rio

1995: The Even-The-Critics-Loved-Bon Jovi Era, of musical perfection:
https://youtu.be/GTc7UR7P0bQ?si=-nbkpMovwl7uGHJJ
Jakarta

6. The 3 Groups in fanbase 12:04
Every version of Never Say Goodbye has its own fanbase!
With a special story about how Bon Jovi won over even the hardest critic. Forever.

7. How the song was created 17:17
Jon has gone on record saying Never Say Goodbye was inspired by Bruce Springsteen/ Southside Johnny’s song Hearts of Stone.
But with a demo sung by Richie Sambora, and the claim he actually wrote it about Jon and Dorothea, it is hard to get to the truth about who did what.
What we do know is that this song would never have been on the album. had it not been for the Pizza Parlor Jury!

8. The Life Lessons here 19:24
Don’t knock the power of the Pizza Parlor Jury!
And sometimes it takes 9 years before something has reached its full potential.
And even then?
Someone, somewhere, will prefer the raw 1987 Jon-is-exhausted version 😅

Next stop:
Wild In The Streets!

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Double down on guitar | I’d Die For You | Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs (new video)

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#27 I’d Die For You
| life lessons in Bon Jovi songs

Welcome back, Jovi friends!
Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs continues in 2025 with the most beloved fan favorite of Slippery When Wet.

To mark this special occasion, I made us an I’d Die For You playlist!
From the earliest demos to its 1996 mastery when it was turned into a ballad
I’d Die For You – Bon Jovi | Playlist – >
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiGoDE3C06SeysU97wXZfucyBQSgVh0V4

I’d Die For You is the 8th song of the album Slippery When Wet (1986), but its core identity is actually being second!

For years this song was absolutely GLUED, to the spot of being played second at Bon Jovi concerts. And for good reason; With the magic of Jon Bon Jovi also playing electric guitar on this one, joining Ritchie Sambora, the song doubled down on being a rock song for the ages.

In this video:

1. Welcome to another episode 00:00
Of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs.
The first video of 2025 and I’m happy to report I’ve made video-making the heart of my planning.
Because over the past years, it just didn’t get done!

So it promises to become a productive year.

2. Slippery When Wet Album 01:36
We’re still at the album that was their absolute biggie.
The book behind me, Let it Rock, is also about the creation of this record.

3. I’d Die For You 02:30
A fan favorite to die for that had its own designated place on every setlist for absolute years! It came second, every night from 1987 to 1989

Link to this channel’s I’d Die For You playlist:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiGoDE3C06SeysU97wXZfucyBQSgVh0V4

4. “Hey operator” 04:07
The first two on the playlist are demos which have entirely different lyrics.
Recognizable by the verses starting with “Hey operator”.
This is the version before Desmond Child came in.
And I was ON THE VERGE- of telling you this version had won me over.
Until I heard the official one (song 3 and up on the playlist)

Unbeatable!
To die for! 😉

5. Always in second place 06:32
For the longest time, I’d Die For You was glued to the second spot in their setlists!
Giving us the first life lesson:
There’s no shame in being second!

6. Less is more 08:26
The second life lesson this song brings us, is less is more.
The new lyrics are more intimate because they have less characters (the operator was no longer in the story).
In particular because the music is already so rich, it pays off to have less “exposition” or complexity, in the lyrics.

🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛
The little cat peeking into the frame every now and then is Zaza.
The pluche toys on the couch are little bear Puux, Fleurtje the Monchhichi and Master Grogu. And it’s winter so they’re all snuggled up in their blanket.
(Zaza and Flip’s baby blanket, but they’re okay with them using it)

7. Saved the best for last!! 11.22
This song live has Jon Bon Jovi on electric guitar!!
Double electric guitar really makes this song kick in.
But in recent years, something happened that broke this ancient custom.

8. The future of Bon Jovi live 14:02
Will we ever hear I’d Die For You, in its former glory?

Next stop:
Never Say Goodbye!

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Codename “The List” | Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day | episode 1

I could not believe my eyes….
All 102 tracks on the original playlist, as created January 2021, were all still there.

And for anybody who ever tried to keep a playlist alive on YouTube, you know how easy it is for videos to fall out. Something which is indicated when it will say something like “videos which are no longer available have been hidden”

Listen to the original playlist here:
Bon Jovi 1985 – 2020 Hidden Gems In Chronological Order

When I clicked this 2021 playlist with 102 Bon Jovi gems, and this message did not show up?
I just couldn’t believe my eyes.
Surely, this could not be true. Somewhere along the list things must have gone missing.

So I printed the 2021 blogpost where I wrote out a list of all songs, and checked them one by one.

Yeah!
All there!
The original playlist is in mint condition.

In the description box I did find a 2022 note, about 5 missing songs which I had replaced at the time. But apparently after that, it had all held up.

So what I’m going to do the upcoming years, is to use this original list as the basis;
But then finetune it further.
Listing the entire catalog of rare Bon Jovi songs.

Obviously, we’re gonna add songs I found or which were brought to my attention since then.
There are actually several extra playlists on my channel already, where I collected quite a few, but it’s going to be a messy process. Did not keep any of it updated, but it’s a start.
And even this step of attending to what I collected, new songs wise, will require time to sort out.

But there is also at least one very principle choice I need to attend to;
Do I still want covers on this list, or not?

In the original list there were a few covers, but I could go without them to be honest.
But I also found new covers which I am dying to add… so I’m unsure which route to take!
Go purist and only have original material?
Or include Bon Jovi’s covers? Usually in the form of live recordings.

I called this blogpost, and the new list on YouTube “Codename: The List” which is a reference to the movie Atomic Blonde (2017).

In this movie (a fictional setting of London England and Berlin in the weeks around the fall of the wall in 1989) there is a referral at MI6 headquarters to a watch which contains a list of all spies/ operatives on all sides and all their shady deals, as having:
“Codename, The List.”

Which made a YouTube channel who had looked up all flaws in this movie, wonder why you would give something a codename that was the exact representation of what it actually was.
In other words “The List” is not really a codename for something that is an actual list.

In the same way codename The List is of course a bit silly for a list of rare and unknown Bon Jovi songs.
But in our defense;
We no longer want these songs to be a secret.

In the upcoming decade, through these blogposts as well as my YouTube (Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs);
Let’s find out who these songs are.
Learn their correct names.
Bring them out of anonymity.
To these improvised Rock Star Writer headquarters.

And offer them a chance to tell their story.
And shine.

 

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THE NEW list, which is starting out 29th January 2025 as a copy of the old, can be found here:
Rolling List of Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – current day

Foundational post (2021):
102 Hidden Bon Jovi Gems 1985 – 2020

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A Designated Cover Song | Without Love | Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs (new video)

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#26 Without Love
| life lessons in Bon Jovi songs

Welcome back, Jovi friends!
Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs continues with the least recognized song of the album, Without Love.
It has the questionable honor of being the only song on this album that was never performed live.

Without Love is the 7th song of the album Slippery When Wet (1986).

In this video:

1. Welcome to another episode 00:00
Of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs.
This sure feels like ages ago!
(in reality it was one packed December month ago)

But this song has the perfect line for it:
🎵🎶 “I’ve been through some changes
But some things always stay the same” 🎵🎶
There’s nothing “without love”, and I do love making these videos!
So of course, I am back.

2. One of 4 Siblings 01:20
Desmond Child co-wrote several songs for Bon Jovi’s album Slippery When Wet.
Without Love is one of the two lesser known songs.

The fourth Desmond Child song is I’d Die For You, which is up next;
And about which I already have a lot of emotions! 🥶😬

As opposed to the usual suspects on this album, competing for Best Song, it appears to be the upcoming I’d Die For You that seems to be presenting the biggest challenge so far in this series!

3. A designated Cover Song 04:57
The unusual thing Jon Bon Jovi said about Without Love
(source: https://twostorytown.com/without-love)

4. What would Tony Kuzminski say about this song?! 06:14
Always a great question to ask oneself.
(read his answer for any Bon Jovi song here: https://ultimateclassicrock.com/bon-jovi-songs-ranked/)

5. The Life Lesson! 07:37

Okay!
So we’ve definitely had lessons that were more tightly knit to the song itself.
But my friend, rarely will you get a “deeper cut” of insiders-only yoga knowledge!
Colored in, by yours truly.
So this theory was passed down to me, in an era long gone. But I expanded on it, and developed it into my own thing.

I’m not even going to say what it’s about.
Because YouTube has probably got me shadow banned enough based on verbal analysis alone.
But it’s good 😉

Next stop:
I’d Die For You!
🥶😬

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Cemented into 80s Pop Culture | Raise Your Hands | Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs (new video)

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#25 Raise Your Hands
| life lessons in Bon Jovi songs

The unlikely candidate to become a classic;
But hear me out!

Raise Your Hands is the sixth song of the album Slippery When Wet (1986) and the opener of side B, for vinyl and cassette.

This episode was recorded on 24th November 2024, and posted on the 28th.

In this video:

1. Welcome to another episode 00:00
Of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs.
This sure feels like ages ago! (in reality it was 3 weeks )
With Raise Your hands we have flipped the Slippery When Wet cassette or vinyl to the second side, where this songs opens.

2. The Tale of Two Opening Songs 00:55
A story about Raise Your Hands (opener of side B), Let it Rock (album opener), as well as an initially unnamed instrumental sibling, which would successfully be teamed up to either one.

Plus a fast forward to the classic opener for their next album (the New Jersey album, 1988) and tour.
They were definitely overdelivering on their openers!

“Raise Your Hands is my way of saying good morning class.”
Jon Bon Jovi, 1986

3. Going all in on being a live band 06:30
Raise Your Hands was the signature song for the Slippery When Wet Tour specifically.
The song would disappear from the setlist afterwards.

But Raise Your Hands was also symbolic of them coming of age as a live band. And understanding Bon Jovi could handle stadiums.

4. We, The band 09:15
And my 2 cents on when we noticed there is an I, in Bon Jovi.

5. A Star Is Born 10:31
Director Wayne Isham literally set the stage for the new Bon Jovi era.
He set up a faux stage at a boxing arena, brought in a live audience, and shot the videos for the album’s first two videos;
You Give Love A Bad Name and Livin’ On A Prayer.
Turning them into superstars.

6. Director Wayne Isham 14:40
Would stay on for years, creating many more Live-inspired videos.
At first it seems there’s little story telling here, but Richie Sambora pointed out that those videos were actually a form of documentary.
A style that had never before been used for music videos.

Having a live video would become the default for the band.

7. Play your strengths 15:51
The live videos, as well as Jon’s realization around 1986, that they could handle big stadiums, are both examples of having a keen sense of what you’re good at.
And rolling with that.

8. Raise Your Hands equals movie Spaceballs 17:05
For many people, these two always go hand in hand!
As the comment section of Raise Your Hands on the official Bon Jovi YouTube, proves.
Spaceballs was an 80s Star Wars spoof, and it has cemented Raise Your Hands into 80s pop culture.

You can watch the movie here: Spaceballs (1987)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qAGuYr3hpR4

Next stop:
Without Love!

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The Anthem! | Wanted Dead or Alive | Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs (new video)

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#24 Wanted Dead or Alive
| life lessons in Bon Jovi songs

Known to Bon Jovi fans as THE ANTHEM!
But we’ll just go with;
Everybody’s Favorite Song 🙂

With the exception of the few rebels who choose differently out of principle.
But even they (including me) would agree Wanted Dead or Alive is Bon Jovi’s most cinematic composition.

Wanted Dead or Alive is the fifth song of the album Slippery When Wet (1986) and the closer to side A, for vinyl and cassette.

video recorded on 4 November 2024

In this video:

1. Welcome to another episode 00:00
Of Life lessons in Bon Jovi songs.
A series we do in chronological order and we’re at their third album.
And Everybody’s Favorite Song.

2. The Brilliant Website 00:51
That is making creating this series so much easier for me!
The website is called Two Story Town.
This is today’s page:
https://twostorytown.com/wanted-dead-or-alive
With “Everything Anyone In Bon Jovi Has Ever Said About Wanted Dead or Alive”.

3. How this Cowboy-inspired song came into being 01:45
Tapping straight into the lonely depths of their ’84 and ’85 tours, this song did not just have a personal meaning for them;
It also had a specific musical inspiration.
They knew what they wanted! So to speak.

4. David Bryan the Keyboard Prayer 😉 05:08
Bon Jovi’s low-key instrumentalist, brings it once again.

5. Richie’s Basement 07:52
The bare bones of this song were created at a magical place: The basement at Richie Sambora’s.
It was his parent’s basement and he had dreamed and envisioned his life as a rock star before he could even play.

I forgot to outline a real lesson to this song, in the video.
But I’d say the lesson is to have a place where you can dream.
Just like Richie Sambora did.

6. The Afternoon It ALL Happened 10:10
And they even had time to write a second song.

7. Recording this song at the Studio 11:09
And Bruce Fairbairn giving the missing link to bring this song to life!

8. Bring. Back. Acoustic. 12:04
And double neck and even triple neck guitar.

9. Going against the grain 14:10
Although I agree Wanted Dead or Alive is hands down the strongest song in Bon Jovi history;
I’m gonna go with an entirely different song, as being my favorite!
And I just realized I managed to pick the one that is its diametrical opposite!
😉
Can you guess?
It was a song created for a single purpose, and with no intrinsic meaning to pretty much anyone. Yet played at pretty much every Bon Jovi concert.

Wanted Dead or Alive, the strongest song Bon Jovi ever made, was a testament.
It was the loneliness they had been unable to articulate at the time;
Coming out, guns blazing.

Next stop:
Raise Your Hands!

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